FLORIDA, USA: Katrina feels more confident than ever with her grey hair. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

By Rebecca Drew

 

THIS MUM has spent over THIRTY YEARS hiding her grey locks that started at just nineteen-years-old – but since giving up the dye she says she is inundated with INAPPROPRIATE pictures and DMs from men.

School director and singer, Katrina DiMare (51) who lives in Jupiter, Florida, USA, was just 19 when she first noticed her hair was greying.

Fearful of what her peers would think, Katrina started to dye her hair in a bid to conceal her silver strands. Initially Katrina maintained her coloured hair every few months but as the years went by, the proportion of her hair that was fading to grey also increased.

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina with her daughter and husband when she was regularly dying her hair. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

By the time she was in her thirties and forties, Katrina’s natural hair colour was half silver and she had to dye it two to three times a month to keep her ‘skunk stripe’ of lighter hair at the top of her hairline hidden.

Exhausted by the almost constant maintenance of her hair colour, Katrina decided she no longer wanted to dye her hair and four years ago she embarked on researching the best route to go down for her silver hair journey.

Katrina decided the best way to embrace the silver was to gradually blend it by dying it light brown in February 2018, then a light blonde in April 2018 and she used a purple shampoo to transform the blonde into an ash grey. Now two years on, Katrina’s hair is an incredible dazzling natural silver and her husband Mark (49) and daughter Alessandra (9) are her hair’s biggest fans.

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina’s hair during the blending to grey process. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

Sharing pictures of her stunning hair on Instagram, under the handle @glamorousaging, along with tips on how women can age with style has won her an incredible 18.2K followers on the social media platform – and she says not a day goes by where she doesn’t receive a compliment about her mane. She also receives unwelcome comments from men.

“I guess my silver journey started around nineteen. I remember seeing the bright white strands sprinkled through the crown of my head,” said Katrina.

“But, this was the late 1980s, young girls didn’t have silver hair. Consequently, the dying of my hair began. I coloured my hair for the next thirty years. As the years progressed and my silver hair increased, so did the frequency of my dye jobs.

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina pictured in her early twenties. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

“By my mid-thirties, I was fifty per cent silver.  As my silver increased, so did the frequency of colouring to keep it concealed.

“By the time I was in my mid forties, I was having to dye it every ten to fourteen days to keep my skunk stripe in the middle of my head covered.

“It was extremely exhausting, it would take one and a half to two hours a week every couple of weeks. I had so much silver, it was like a neon sign against my dark hair even when it was a week of growth.

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina’s hair dye would grow out quickly, exposing her grey. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

“I have never regretted my decision to go silver. I wished I had done it sooner, I have never had more compliments on my hair in all my life.

“I get compliments every day on my hair now. They will say, ‘Wow, I love the colour’ or, ‘Hair goals’  or, ‘gosh that is a beautiful colour’ – and then I tell them it is my hair colour and they are stunned.

“My family love it, but they are my family, what are they going to say? They do say they can find me anywhere now, just look for the bright silver head.

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina says embracing her silver hair was the best decision she has made. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

“Men on Instagram don’t just compliment the silver hair, they just say anything and everything. Send inappropriate pics, say inappropriate things. It’s so tiresome.

“I think it is important to balance a young spirit with the wisdom gained in age. I think it is important to wear fashion that is not too young but not frumpy and out of date.

“I think hair and makeup should be approached with beauty in mind, not trends. What looks good on a twenty year old can make a fifty year old look ridiculous. For example, the young beauty gurus can try bold makeup colours and some harsher contouring, on a mature face, it can look a little crazy.”

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina, who is a singer, embraces her silver locks on stage. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

During the her hair transformation, Katrina had to be careful to avoid breakage and damage to her hair.

Now, she often gets women contacting her telling her she is their inspiration for embracing their natural hair colour as they get older and Katrina is proud of this, she shared her words of advice to others.

“So far, literally every compliment I have ever received has been positive,” said Katrina.

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina loves her silver hair. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

“There was one time I got a backhanded compliment of ‘You look too young for silver hair… but it looks good.’  But, that is the worst one. I get a lot of, ‘You are my inspiration to go silver.’  Or, ‘You make me want to have silver hair.’

“I do feel that you have to be really ready to do it, though. No one can really push you over the edge. It’s not like getting new highlights.

“It is truly a transition and a learning curve. I had to learn new makeup (I wore darker colours and more makeup as a brunette, now that looks awful and I go with more natural colours).

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina has over 18K followers on Instagram. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

“So, you have to be prepared to learn the new ways to see yourself with your new coloration.

“One thing to remember when you grow out your silver is that everyone is different. Your silver pattern is like your fingerprint, only yours.

“My hairline is dark and the rest is bright silver. Some people have a gorgeous streak right at their forehead or maybe their temples.

FLORIDA, USA: Katrina with her silver hair. Mediadrumworld / @glamorousaging

“Regardless, you will find as you transition that you discover the real you. You have a beautiful canvas of colours that are all your own.”

For more information see www.instagram.com/glamorousaging